The XXX sex world is not for the faint of heart. There are so many things that those who call themselves normal would absolutely cringe about. But then again, what exactly is normal when it comes to sexual activity? Everyone has different limits, different ideas of what gets them off the most. Sure, some are a bit freaky, but as long as no one is getting hurt and all parties are on board with what is going on, what is the harm? Of course, sometimes, people are indeed getting hurt, but that is something to discuss at another time. One of the more curious fetishes in this world concerns condoms.
Supposedly every hetero guy’s dream is to have a woman he loves and another-or more then another-woman he can fuck on the side. The problem with this scenario is that the one he leaves at home doesn’t usually go for the arraignment, preferring to have her husband’s heart as well as his fidelity secure.
In some instances-poly and open relationships-the woman is free to play as much as the man, but too many straight men simply can’t abide their wife or girlfriend seeing another guy, getting fucked by a penis not theirs’, so therefore the guy makes a concession and agrees he won’t do the deed with anyone else if his wife agrees she won’t swing as well.
We all agree that when it comes to fucking, the real thing is always the best. But sometimes couples who are sex dating may find themselves in different places. Potential casual hookups may not be ready to go all the way yet, but are still intrigued by the sexual imagination of their other partner. Those who are in a long term relationship or are just regular fuck buddies may also find that they are stuck far apart for some reason; one of you goes on a trip or gets stuck working late but has a few minutes of naughty privacy. That's when phone sex can be the perfect addition.
If you're like me, you love the porno. Porn pics, porn vids, porn fiction, and audio porn. I have been around from a while, and I've seen porn grow from a tiny seedling into a giant redwood of earthly delights. From my perspective, porn has gotten better in some ways, and worse in some ways. My theory:
It used to be that porn clips were pretty basic. Straightforward vaginal and oral sex. When the clip wanted to "push the boundaries", there would be anal. Now a days, anal is in EVERY clip. In fact, ass-to-mouth seems to be the "normal" sexual experience in most porn clips. God bless this wonderful world. Now a days, for a porn clip to push the boundaries, you need triple penetration, or a DVDA performed by a foursome of evil clowns. Still hot.
To get weird in the past, the best you could find was maybe some interracial preggo porn. But today, there is shemale bondage porn, for when you really want to see something crizazzy. Don't get me wrong - I love that the envelope has been pushed so far, but I have to admit, sometimes I miss the simplicity of a hot woman getting fucked in her vagina.
I guess it's like how my parents like watching "Happy Days" because it makes them remember their youth. That's why today, I'm only going to watch straightforward vag sex. If I can find it, that is. It's rare these days!
When you're out there adult dating, it pays to think about what women want. Survey after survey shows that most women share the same set of sex fantasies in the bedroom. If you're smart, you'll try to fulfill every damn one of them with her. Then you can ask her to dress up like Princess Leia and fulfill a couple of your fantasies. Enjoy!
9. The Devil's Threesome
Most women out there have a secret fantasy of being with two men at once. And why not? Twice the dudes give twice the pleasure - and it's all for her! Vanilla variations involve her giving one dude oral while the other dude is fucking her, but obviously it can get as outrageous as the woman wants. See also: spit roasting, the double-team
8. Stripper/whore role-play
Wanna know why pole dancing classes are so popular these days? It's not just to please guys. If you see a woman who looks like she's pretty hum-drum about sex, you can bet that behind closed doors, she wants to let loose. For most women, this means she wants to striptease for her man. For those with a real bad-girl kink, it can mean prostitute role-playing. Either way, it means a very fun night. Don't forget to hit a bank machine first.
7. Use the Force, Luke
When a woman feels comfortable enough with a man, a fun fantasy is the ravage scenario. This means that the guy, overcome with desire, simply throws the woman over his shoulder and takes her to the nearest available spot for some primal animal sex. This fantasy inflates the woman's self-esteem safely, because it feels good to make somebody lose control with sexual desire.
6. Stranger Sex
This one is very common. Basically finding some random lucky guy and fucking him with anonymous ecstasy. This one is great for women because it is a headache-free experience that avoids all the drama that can come with the serious relationship. No strings attached means she can get crazy and leave all her normal reservations behind.
5. The Dominated
Women want to be treated equally. But not always. There are ladies out there that wet their panties thinking about a man vigorously thrusting into her pussy while giving her hair a pull, and forcefully bringing her head back to kiss her. Or tying her wrists to the headboard so he can suck on her juicy cunt until her brain melts.
4. The Dominator
There are two sides to every coin. Not only do most women love the idea of being dominated, but lots also fantasize about dominating. You call her Mistress, and have to ask permission for everything. She might have a whip for when you're naughty. She might have a leash for you to wear. Women love this fantasy because teasing and controlling the sexual experience can be a powerful experience.
3. Videotape and Voyeurism
In the age of the celebrity sex-tape, women are getting more and more into taping themselves in the bedroom. The proliferation of the free amateur sex tapes on the internet testify to that fact. The idea of strangers watching her having sex turns women on. Turns the men on too, I guarantee. Plus, you have a nice memento to watch when it's all done.
2. The Naughty Schoolgirl
Maybe she was passing notes in class. Maybe she wants you to change her grades. Whatever the reason, she wants to get into her kilt, role-play, and have her teacher deal with her. Odds are at some point she'll need a spanking, because she's been such a bad girl. And there's nothing like a little light spanking to get these ladies' juices flowing. In the end, make sure you give her an A+.
1. Three's Company
Where the kisses are hers, and hers, and his. Nowadays, straight women having lesbian experiences is not uncommon. Plenty of women out there harbor a fantasy where she and another woman drive each other crazy, while the guy takes turns pleasing one, then the other. This one is great, because women naturally have skills pleasing other women, since they have the equipment and know what feels good.
Try them all!